Could you handle it...

Let's say your significant other cheated on you, could you handle them telling you that they did?

Even though you're hurting and mad could you respect the fact that they came and told you?

Could you accept the fact that they were man/woman enough to admit their wrongs and try to make amends for it?

Tough questions, right!!! To be honest I don't know how I would feel, respond, or react. Cheating is always a tough pill to swallow. There's no easy way to get it down without gagging, choking, or it not leaving a lasting impression inside on it's way to digestion. It's one of those pains that sometimes just don't make sense. Sometimes you never see it coming, but they say you usually always have a sign. It may be apparent and sometimes it may not be, but I'm almost certain it's never wanted. Then the cheater usually wants to be forgiven and get back in the cheated's good graces. Often times they have an excuse as to why they cheated, as if their explanation makes it better. There is no excuse that'll make me say "oh ok, I get it...I understand why you did that." I guess this is one of those situtations where you'll have to be in that situtation before you can really comment on how you'll react.