RELATIONSHIPS...

I am definitely not the one to be giving relationship advice. Never married, no kids, no steady boyfriend, matter of fact no committed relationship that lasted more than 6 months in the past 5 years. But there are several things that I would not allow a man to do to me. I will not be disrespected period! In any relationship, I don't care if I am your wife, girlfriend, boo, side piece, jump off or whatever. You will treat me with respect in whatever kind of relationship we have at all times.

I will not be lied to! This goes along with respect because you wouldn’t lie to someone you respected? Or would you? If I am only a side piece hopefully we have already discussed this and if we have I know my role. I am grown enough to handle the truth and I'm not going to ask any questions I don't want to hear the answer to. With that being said, if I do ask any questions I am genuinely interested in the answer and would always prefer the truth. Lying will get you nowhere but kicked out of my bed! Now if I am a wife or girlfriend, I dare you to let me catch you in a lie… and you know I will. Be warned women can make your life hell. Lie to me once, shame on you. Lie to me twice, shame on me. Lie to me 4,5,6 times...you got to get the eff up out of here!

I will also not be mistreated. If you say you are gonna do something, do it! Be a man, have balls and live up to your responsibilities. Women should be treated like princesses all of the time but the ones you love should be treated like queens and nothing less. How can you love something and not want the best for it and want to give it your all?

It doesn't match.

I’m Goin In….

 

I’ve warmed the bench long enough.  I’ve sat back and watched the rookies and vets play, all the while analyzing what the game is missing…..ME  Well I’m back.  Jordan came out of retirement, and so shall I.  See I’m not the average player, I won’t suit up for just any old game… but when they need the game winning shot, or we need to shut someone down… the warm ups come off!!!!

See there’s one thing about the game, it never changes… and lucky for me I have the rule book memorized.  I may lose My Number 1 fan with my change of team, but guarantee there will be a slue of fans waiting for my autograph after each appearance.  I’m already being scouted and recruited for out of state play, but I’m weighing my options.  Every good player knows that a hold out will get you a better offer on the table.  Well I believe I’m warm enough….

Whistle Blows…. Warm Ups Hit the Floor…. I’m Goin In

People can expire too…

I change my miiiiiiiind, I don’t want you no more…. 

My adaptation to Keyshia Cole’s song.

Crazy what happens as time passes.  People you think you can’t live without, you are now irritated by when they call.  The coolest person in the world, now has so many lame characteristics…. but what’s different???  The other person more than likely didn’t change, it’s YOU.  They say absence makes the heart grow fonder, but I think it also has an expiration date.  I’m so into you, turns into I’m just not that into you anymore, after time. 

The change in feelings could be temporary, and it could be permanent, but it’s up to you to decide if you will acknowledge the change….. I decided I will :).